MN2.8.3 – How to avoid confrontation

Learning Objectives

By the end of this lesson, the learner will be able to:

• Identify and apply the principle of “Audi Vide Tace” (Listen, Observe, Be Silent) to assess and navigate potentially confrontational situations.
• Recognize the importance of abstaining from discussions on religion and politics to maintain harmony and avoid conflicts.
• Understand and practice the concept of subduing passions and prejudices to foster healthy, constructive discussions rather than arguments.
• Utilize the Betari Box model to understand how personal attitudes and behaviours influence the reactions and behaviours of others.
• Implement strategies for breaking negative behavioural cycles to promote positive and respectful interactions in various settings.

How to avoid confrontation

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In this lesson, will delve into the significance of using Masonic leadership skills to avoid confrontational situations. Confrontations are inevitable in various aspects of life—whether in personal relationships, professional settings, or social interactions. However, managing these situations effectively can make a profound impact on maintaining harmony and fostering constructive dialogue.

Drawing from the principles and teachings of Freemasonry, the lesson will explore how listening, observing, and practicing silence, as encapsulated in the Freemasons’ motto “Audi Vide Tace,” can help one navigate new and potentially volatile environments. By assessing situations and individuals carefully, one can avoid unnecessary conflicts.

Additionally, the lesson will touch on the wisdom of abstaining from discussions on contentious topics such as religion and politics. These subjects often polarize opinions and escalate into heated arguments, which are best avoided to maintain mutual respect and unity.

The concept of subduing one’s passions and prejudices will be another focal point. Rather than suppressing emotions, this principle emphasizes controlling and moderating extreme views to foster healthy discussions instead of arguments aimed at proving who is right.

The lesson will introduce the Betari Box as a practical tool for understanding how our attitudes and behaviours influence those around us. Recognizing negative cycles and taking conscious steps to break them can lead to more positive interactions and fewer confrontations.

Ultimately, the goal of the lesson is to impart valuable skills that are not only vital in Freemasonry but also universally applicable in everyday life. By identifying potential conflicts early and exercising emotional intelligence, individuals can contribute to a more harmonious and understanding environment whether in the workplace, at home, or in broader society.

Activities

How to avoid confrontation

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